You know what's the most difficult? It's getting along with someone. Along in life, along in family. You're trying to throw your own ideas away sometimes to keep that thread between someone you have chosen to spend time with and yourself, your selfish being. And when you succeed, you still have something kicking you, those doubts won't just leave, just go away, they are staying until the very end. Everything you can (more like - the best you can do about them) is taking a sword and blowing them all away with the power of the opposite. The strength of the hit is basing on the strength of your will to kick it all bad away. You're hitting them doubts, but - oh! They're still there. Coming back all the time. Wouldn't it be good for something different to come back the same way the doubts do? Can you control it? You can't even control your thoughts, how come you want to control your whole life or a life of the another? You cannot. Until you control yourself. If you don't have a weapon you can control, you can't give a weapon to somebody else, who hasn't ever even tried to take it in his hands. All you can do is learn yourself and then, only then - show another. Think.
